3 Steps to deal with Admirers you do not want? How to deal with being an unrequited Admirer?

3 Steps to deal with Admirers you do not want

 

Ashton Deroy Writes: So a few years ago when I was attending Loyalist College in 2014. I had a girl from my old high school bugging me on Facebook about her admiration for me.

 

This got pretty bad to the point where the clingy admirer named Ashleigh started claiming things such as “If you don’t love me I will kill myself, Ashton.”

 

What is my background with this woman? I danced with her at an MVD Dance while I was attending ENSS in Brighton Ontario.

 

So we went from innocent dancing to obsession! Something that, of course, terrifies me not only as an uninterested person but as a gay man.

 

My 3 steps to dealing with an unwanted admirer.

  1. Be Direct, Tell them you just are not interested
  2. Create distance, Only execute this step after you have told the party you are not interested. Blocking someone for no reason is both cruel and confusing for the other person involved.
  3. Call the police, If someone is needy, batshit crazy or stunned like Ashleigh. You should call the police to make sure they are not dangerous to themselves or anybody else. “Yes this is a huge pain in the ass for you, but so is someone interfering with your intimate relationships.”

How to deal with being an unrequited Admirer

 

 

As I said I do sympathize with the admirers in this situation, in 2015-2016 I was head over heels for a red headed Agender person in Belleville, Ontario, Canada named Steph.

 

I mean I was head over heels for this person, I used to walk to their house in the winter just to spend time with them when I thought they were lonely.

 

Back during this time I really thought time, friendship and favors would win me their heart. What I didn’t count on was the plain & simple fact that Steph was just an ugly, messed up and sad person who I could not help.

 

How did I get over my crush which leads to nothing but pain?

 

  • Dating, Start seeing people who I find attractive and who find me attractive. I’ve met all sorts of interesting guys in the pursuit of letting go of Steph. Honestly, I would not trade these experiences for anything!
  • Moving out of their area, Distance was a must in getting over Steph. As long as I was in Belleville I was going to follow them like a lost dog. So I moved back home to Brighton then moved to Toronto.

 

  1. Blocking them on Facebook, They don’t need to see what I am doing, and I don’t need to see them. The fact that they were on Facebook and I couldn’t simply talk to them was too painful so I blocked them and just let them go.

 

Facing rejection isn’t easy, but with a fresh dose of space and new intimate relationships. I think you will find an easy answer to freedom for your mind and heart!


 

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Roma Rorssf Seneca Student Federation President statement

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What are your qualifications? “My qualifications are that I’ve been on the recreation council, varsity softball team, I’ve been a mentor to two Seneca freshmen student via the SMILE program and I’ve even founded my own business. I’m very passionate about leadership and involvement and this suits me well for the position.”
What are the duties of the Seneca Student Federation President? The duties of SSF president are student advocacy, both at the school and at a provincial level. Duties include the general managent of the SSF. It’s up to the president to be a voice of guidance to the SSF for the benefit of students. 
What do I plan to accomplish? This answer varies from campus to campus, and group to group, but overall I intend to improve the level of customer service that students recieve, the marketing for events so that people are more aware of events, and better customization. 
Food statement: Many people are interested in better food options at their campus, more mental health awareness and a reduction of a $40 fee to early childhood education students who are mandated to pay for a booklet offered by the ministry that they could have printed off the internet for free. These are just some of the challenges that I’ll look at tackling as president. 

Thank you, and I hope to meet many of you on campus! 

Pictures from North York

Ashton Deroy writes: Dear every wannabe photographer, this is how easy it is to get pictures on a website. I am not ever a photographer which is clear by my execution. 

Which means someone with any type of artistic skill should not have any trouble with this. Yes the pictures don’t have all the same tone, the same brightness and I could of taken some of them on the same day. However I did this and because I did this people are going to get to see my work. 

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Click my name to link to my Facebook Page. 


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What is happening in Toronto today? 

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https://bigwalt58.wordpress.com/2017/02/19/farewell-to-a-piece-of-toronto-history/

We are saying goodbye to Honest Ed’s in Toronto. 

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Lets talk about the green bottle! Coca-Cola Life product.

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Ashton Deroy writes: When you launch a new product, there is a certain amount of market strategy you put in to it. There is a misconception out there that businesses are created around one target market.

However the truth is big businesses are created around multiple target markets around multiple product lines. With Coco-Cola in Toronto you could say they were beginning to lose us as their beverages including fruit juices still aren’t positioned as something you can consume and live a healthy lifestyle. 

However, in 2013 Coco-Cola Life which may change how you look at this Beverage company.  Anita is going to tell you more about in the the writing below. 


Anita Srivastava writes: What makes Coco-Cola Life different from reduced-calorie or no-calorie drinks? The product is sweetened with actual sugar, as well as stevia extract. Stevia is a green, leafy plant that is native to South America. It has been used for medicinal purposes for many centuries. The plant (Better than the real thing? Coke’s new ‘life’ plan) has also been bred for its strong, sweet flavor and used as a sweetener. Signs for Coke Life include the word “NEW” inside green leaf.

Coke Life was first launched in Argentina and Chile in 2013, and has spread across other markets including South America, Europe, Britain and the United States. After steady growth in the US, sales declined in the end of 2015, so company decided to create a “regional acceleration plan” which increased sales in further 6 weeks. In Britain was strong start $7.2-million in sales but just a few months later sales fell to about $4 million. In case with Canada:


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Anita Srivastava writes: ” It’s launched globally, but in Canada, not a lot of people know about it,” Mr. Samoszewski said.

Cola’s new strategy is to be more health concerned, consequently it is focused on launching new marketing strategy and is replaced old labels to new one’s which include amount of calories and ingredients.

Analysis shows that consuming of Vitaminwater grew by 3 per cent, while sparkling beverages declined by 1 per cent in North America.

“Consumers are more conscious of what they’re putting in their bodies. We want to be part of that …” Mr. Samoszewski said.

Works Cited

Better than the real thing? Coke’s new ‘life’ plan. n.d. <http://www.theglobeandmail.com/report-on-business/industry-news/marketing/coca-cola-launching-new-natural-cola-in-canada/article32015327/>.

3 things I would love to hold the mass media accountable for. Bias, Fear Mongering and Lying!

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  1. Bias– To hold favor of one party over another. Media outlets write in favor for one political party or the other. To not state that they do so before their article release is to not claim your bias which is wrong. This is often an evil of Liberal mass media.
  2. Fear mongering– To deliberately arouse fear or distrust in the public. We see this all the time in Conservative media pieces. This is their evil!
  3. Lying – Deliberately misleading the public to fit their own agenda.

Examples of each

13 examples of Donald Trump being Racist by Huffington Post Lydia O’ConnorDaniel Marans – It is less compelling but what if we changed the title to 13 examples of Donald Trump using freedom of speech. Lets not forget the core values of conservatism are free speech, financial sustainability and preserving tradition. 

Trudeau will buried us in debt! by Toronto Sun – Buried us, kill us and put us underground “no doubt”. The title is purely designed to create fear in people to make them read this Conservative article. What does article have really when you look at it? The article states a large debt that the Liberals should take responsibility for. Wait I take accounting class in college and what this article fails to mention is weather our country has a net loss or net gain factoring our revenues from global trade.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_wealth – This is where we rank in national wealth people #8. Don’t panic businesses take on debt all the time. Coco-Cola has debt!

Republicans Gloat after Kicking Martin Luther king out of the white house by New Century Times – Donald Trump just myth busted their asses today!

 

For you racist, Prejudice Liberals. Yep you exist… Trump has a big support from African Americans. So throw away your CNN stats. I don’t care!


Want to make a real impact online? Throw away the Newspaper and start an independent blog!

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Businessphere is on break + articles summary.

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We actually just made this picture as something silly then we decided to post it to the blog. What are we talking about today? Well to start we wanted to announce for the month of February our goal is to let the blog go dormant well Ashton Deroy focuses on school + Personal life and Diana Skye will focus on pursuit of career. 

Here are some of the articles we posted around the 6 business environments. I wanted to share the 5 best articles posted to the website. Click underlined text to view articles

  1. The video forum – Contains audio information covering the commuter problem in Toronto, Waste Privatization and the competitive advantage of personalized marketing with #TeganTuesday as our example. 
  2. The commuter problem article This covers the problems facing mid to low income workers relying on Toronto TTC. 
  3. Dating with Diana – Purely an article for entertainment purposes. Dating with Diana is a social commentary on how dating in Toronto sucks! 
  4. Happy Customers – A look back at customers satisfied with Businessphere advertising. 
  5. Black Lives Matter controlling Toronto Pride– We right in the favor of our men, women, LGBTQ and minorities serving with Canada’s finest on the OPP police force to cater to a radical social group. 

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#TeganTuesday Social media Interview with Tegan Colp.

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Click the picture above to link to Scribner’s Auction in Alberta and #TeganTuesday. 

This interview was conducted over Facebook Messenger. 

Contacts/sales leads, Financial return on investment and brand recognition. This is the bottom line for setting Advertising objectives, the tactic on the other hand is where the fun comes in. In this interview for the Businessphere, I am going to talk to Tegan Colp she runs the #TeganTuesday Facebook campaign for Scribner Auction located at 1235 1 Ave, Wainwright, Alberta T9W 1G9. Thank you for joining me Tegan, here are 5 questions I wanted to ask you in regards to your campaign.

Tegan’s responses are in quotes and italicized.

What were three things leading to the success of Tegan Tuesday Tegan?

Persistence, perfectionism, and being different every week. And yeah for sure!”

What was the advertising execution before you?

Just general picture advertising.  With the occasional video.”

How do you measure the success of your ads?

By the amount of views, Shares are a really good measurement, but I always feel more accomplished when a video has lots of views.”


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What do you hope your ads change about Scribner’s auction moving forward?

I hope to bring a younger demographic to the auction. I’m hoping by being current in social media, it will attract a new generation.”.

What is a common social media advertising error you advise against?

Don’t forget the who, what, when, where, or why.”

Thank you for joining me Tegan Colp, I look forward to your future content.

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Check out Tegan Colp’s Facebook page by clicking the image below: 

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3 Software applications your business needs to have in the digital sphere.

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Ashton Deroy writes: Working in the digital sphere is not easy, it is not a one day job and done. Welcome to work, if you work one day or heck if you work one hour a day your business will be buried alive in the cluttered free market! 

What do you need to do to stay on top of the digital sphere? Glad you asked, Clicked through and or cared enough to want to make real money for your business. 

If you are running the Marketing and sales for your business you need the following software to stay on top of the game: 

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Shopify Software is a must have for your digital business. Why must you have this software? Lets check out some of the features and benefits:

  • They can help you list with Amazon
  • Shopify eliminates the high need for personal selling (but you still should) 
  • Shopify adds your service/product line to your website to keep your pricing top of mind. 

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Unlike most Marketers I list transparent pricing to fairly bill clients. I figure if people know my listed prices I eliminate a barrier between me and the customer. 

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What is Microsoft office? I ask everyone who is trained in”Who cares.” software. Why do you need Google Drive? 

  • Free storage
  • Free use of word, ppt and spreadsheet software 
  • Collaborative technology need in every marketing space

If you are using anything else. STOP! Your sales teams, Marketing teams and everyone who is not handling private information needs to be using this. 

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I am not on Google analytics because I don’t need to be… I measure all my Websites with WordPress ratings. What else benefits me with this software? 

  • Manages web hosting + Domain in 1 easy place. I know some people don’t like having all their eggs in one basket. For the benefits I have had as a 3 year long user I am okay with it. 
  • I can see what blogs drive traffic 
  • Convenient easy to use upgrading. For business emails, Business domains and business level web templates. 

If you don’t know your Websites IP hits, you can’t sell advertising on it! “Period”. 

Send us your thoughts! We love getting engaged with the community. 

 

Toronto Maple Leafs knock off the Ottawa Senators

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Tonight reported 11 minutes ago by leexiledone on Instagram. The Toronto Maple Leafs knocked off the Ottawa Senators 4-2. 

What contributed to this win? 

  • The first goal was scored at the 6:26 mark for the Leaf’s setting the tone for the conclusion of the game. 
  • Nazem Kadri had two goals
  • Mcelhinney Curtis stopped 35/37 attempts on the net. The goalie is perceived from many sources as a standout in the NHL.

Related sources to Mcelhinney Curtis: 

http://www.torontosun.com/2017/01/12/maple-leafs-need-positive-results-from-good-guy-goalie-mcelhinney

http://tipofthetower.com/2017/01/11/toronto-maple-leafs-claim-curtis-mcelhinney-off-waivers/

https://ca.sports.yahoo.com/nhl/players/3747/


 

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Network, Engage & Advertise

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Thank you trevorflanny from Instagram who provided our new header image. Excellent photograph of the city. Sharing this image is an example of Businessphere’s objectives to Network, Engage & Advertise within the city of Toronto. 

Network, Engage & Advertise

What do we mean? Well Networking is defined as linking with professionals to further one’s career. Engaging has to do with our goal to talk with our readers, commenters and even critics.  Advertising, is our ultimate stream of revenue on the web, our goal is to sell to a few exclusive advertisers in order to eliminate problems of publishing clutter and grow our reach within the community of Toronto. 

We are not even going to keep communications strategy a secret, we love engaging with people in #Toronto. We will engage most likely on the platforms of Instagram, Twitter, Facebook & WordPress. 


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What is our value? 

Think of us as Social media Journalists, writers and Business experts.For main staff Diana would love to work in content writing in an ad agency. Ashton’s goal is to work in Government Communications in some shape or form. 

The value of our actual platform is uncluttered ad exposure, the option for exclusive advertising exposure and opting to use the sales & technological experience of Diana Skye & Ashton Deroy. 

Interested in your marketing and sales options with us? Send us a message below: